Becoming Uncommon is an upcoming book and a school-based curriculum that teach young people the inner skills of a well-lived life—self-awareness, emotional intelligence, resilience, compassion and purpose.
A book for the curious. A curriculum for the classroom.
The Book
Written for young people and the adults who love them, Becoming Uncommon makes the science of flourishing readable, honest and usable. Each chapter pairs a research idea with a practice a reader can try the same day.
Short, story-driven chapters written in plain language
Reflection prompts for individual readers and small groups
A companion guide for parents and mentors
The School Curriculum
A ready-to-teach curriculum for grades 8–12, designed for advisory, wellness and leadership programs. Everything an educator needs is included, so the work continues after the workshop ends.
Sequenced lessons with clear objectives and timing
Facilitator scripts, slides and printable student journals
Assessment ideas and school-wide implementation guidance
Inside Becoming Uncommon
Six themes, one throughline.
Every chapter and lesson returns to the same six capacities—the ones that make an ordinary life unusually good.
Chapter One
Who Are You, Really?
Self-awareness, values, and the difference between a label and an identity.
Chapter Two
The Weather Inside
Emotions as information: naming, normalizing and regulating what you feel.
Chapter Three
Stronger Than You Think
Resilience, reframing and what to do on the days that go badly.
Chapter Four
Compassion, Starting Close
Kindness toward self, then toward others—and repairing relationships well.
Chapter Five
Attention Is Your Currency
Mindfulness, focus and reclaiming a mind built for constant distraction.
Chapter Six
A Life That Means Something
Purpose, contribution and choosing an uncommon path with your eyes open.
Units & pacing
Six units, each built from 30–45 minute lessons that flex from a six-week advisory series to a full-year program.
For educators
Facilitator notes, discussion prompts and training so any trusted adult can lead with confidence.
For students
Journals, reflections and practices that are honest, secular and age-appropriate—no lectures, no clichés.
Whole-school fit
Aligned to advisory, wellness, leadership and service programs, with optional faculty and parent sessions.
Who It’s For
Built for the middle and high school years
Grades 8–12 students
The developmental window where self-understanding compounds fastest.
Advisors, counselors & teachers
Trusted adults who want structure, not another binder of ideas.
School leaders
Administrators building a coherent, mission-aligned well-being initiative.
Parents & young adults
Readers who want the same language at home, and graduates who want to keep growing.
In Development
A dedicated home for Becoming Uncommon is on its way
The book and curriculum will soon have their own website with sample lessons, educator resources and release details. Until then, inquiries, pilot requests and early partnerships are all welcome through this site.