Coming Soon · Book & Curriculum

An invitation to become uncommon.

Becoming Uncommon is an upcoming book and a school-based curriculum that teach young people the inner skills of a well-lived life—self-awareness, emotional intelligence, resilience, compassion and purpose.

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Two Ways To Begin

A book for the curious. A curriculum for the classroom.

The Book

Written for young people and the adults who love them, Becoming Uncommon makes the science of flourishing readable, honest and usable. Each chapter pairs a research idea with a practice a reader can try the same day.

  • Short, story-driven chapters written in plain language
  • Reflection prompts for individual readers and small groups
  • A companion guide for parents and mentors

The School Curriculum

A ready-to-teach curriculum for grades 8–12, designed for advisory, wellness and leadership programs. Everything an educator needs is included, so the work continues after the workshop ends.

  • Sequenced lessons with clear objectives and timing
  • Facilitator scripts, slides and printable student journals
  • Assessment ideas and school-wide implementation guidance

Inside Becoming Uncommon

Six themes, one throughline.

Every chapter and lesson returns to the same six capacities—the ones that make an ordinary life unusually good.

Chapter One

Who Are You, Really?

Self-awareness, values, and the difference between a label and an identity.

Chapter Two

The Weather Inside

Emotions as information: naming, normalizing and regulating what you feel.

Chapter Three

Stronger Than You Think

Resilience, reframing and what to do on the days that go badly.

Chapter Four

Compassion, Starting Close

Kindness toward self, then toward others—and repairing relationships well.

Chapter Five

Attention Is Your Currency

Mindfulness, focus and reclaiming a mind built for constant distraction.

Chapter Six

A Life That Means Something

Purpose, contribution and choosing an uncommon path with your eyes open.

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Who It’s For

Built for the middle and high school years

Grades 8–12 students

The developmental window where self-understanding compounds fastest.

Advisors, counselors & teachers

Trusted adults who want structure, not another binder of ideas.

School leaders

Administrators building a coherent, mission-aligned well-being initiative.

Parents & young adults

Readers who want the same language at home, and graduates who want to keep growing.

In Development

A dedicated home for Becoming Uncommon is on its way

The book and curriculum will soon have their own website with sample lessons, educator resources and release details. Until then, inquiries, pilot requests and early partnerships are all welcome through this site.

Pilot it with your students first.

Schools are invited to partner in the pilot year—shaping the curriculum while their own students grow from it.

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